Prefer the given.
Sounds easy enough, right?
I am reading a book called "Momumental; Adventures in the Messy Art of Raising a Family." In her book the author Jennifer Grant mentioned that one of her college professors introduced the idea to "prefer the given."
She writes, "Coined by British author Charles Williams, the phrase means choosing to appreciate what we have instead of being dissatisfied with the grace and other gifts God gives us.
In other words, if winter is a northerner's lot in life for half the year, what's the point in wishing it were otherwise?"
For some reason this really struck me today. I definitely try to stick to this philosphy, but sometimes the hustle and bustle of every day life gets in the way. It is easy to forget how blessed we are, especially if we fall into the pit of comparrison. Lets face it- sometimes the grass does look greener on the other side. But looks can be so deceiving.
I am so thankful for the life, though not always easy by any means, that God has chosen to give me. As I go through this week, I will be working to prefer the given.
Happy Sunday!